Fans who first met Miles Heizer as Alex Standall on 13 Reasons Why often wonder who he is in real life — especially regarding his romantic life. The actor’s relationship with fellow Canadian star Connor Jessup sparked plenty of excitement, but recent coverage has left many asking: are they still together? This article separates verified facts from fan theories, drawing on public statements and media reports to give you the clearest picture of Heizer’s personal life and career.
Full name: Miles Dominic Heizer ·
Date of birth: May 16, 1994 ·
Birthplace: Greenville, Kentucky, USA ·
Breakout role: Alex Standall in 13 Reasons Why ·
Known for: 13 Reasons Why, Nerve, Rails & Ties, Boots ·
Sexual orientation: Gay (publicly identified)
Quick snapshot
- Miles Heizer is a gay American actor born May 16, 1994 (Wikipedia (community‑maintained biography))
- He confirmed a public relationship with actor Connor Jessup in February 2020 (Attitude (LGBTQ+ media outlet))
- No credible evidence suggests he ever dated co‑star Brandon Flynn (PinkNews (LGBTQ+ news site))
- Exact month the relationship with Connor Jessup began (reported as “about 18 months” before February 2020) (Attitude (LGBTQ+ media outlet))
- Current relationship status — media reports from 2025 suggest the couple may have split, but neither actor has publicly confirmed a breakup (Us Weekly (celebrity news magazine))
- Whether Heizer’s social media activity indicates a relationship (no posts with Jessup since early 2020) — no public evidence of contact (Attitude (LGBTQ+ media outlet))
- 2018: Jessup reportedly messaged Heizer online (Who’s Dated Who (fan‑curated database)) [low confidence]
- Feb 2020: Relationship made official on Valentine’s Day (myGwork (LGBTQ+ professional network))
- 2025: Neither Heizer nor Jessup listed a public partner in cast roundups (Swooon (entertainment site))
- Official word from either actor would settle the status — until then, the timeline remains in limbo (Us Weekly (celebrity news magazine))
- Heizer’s upcoming projects (e.g., Boots on Netflix) may bring renewed media attention to his personal life (Us Weekly (celebrity news magazine))
Six key facts, one pattern: Heizer’s public profile has always been tied to both his craft and his quiet approach to personal disclosure.
| Attribute | Value |
|---|---|
| Full name | Miles Dominic Heizer |
| Age | 31 (as of 2025) |
| Height | 5 ft 8 in (1.73 m) |
| Profession | Actor |
| Active years | 2007–present |
| Instagram handle | @younggoth |
Is Miles Heizer in a relationship?
Who is Miles Heizer dating?
- Miles Heizer has been publicly linked to actor Connor Jessup. Jessup, best known for his roles in Locke & Key and Manifest, confirmed the relationship in February 2020 in an interview with Attitude (LGBTQ+ publication), revealing that falling in love gave him the courage to come out publicly.
- At the time, Jessup stated they had been dating for about 18 months, placing the start of their romance around mid‑2018 (Attitude).
- Seventeen magazine called the pair an “adorable relationship” in its coverage of the announcement (Seventeen (youth‑focused lifestyle magazine)).
Miles Heizer and Connor Jessup relationship timeline
- 2018: According to fan‑curated sources, Jessup messaged Heizer online and they began dating privately (Who’s Dated Who (user‑generated database) — low confidence).
- February 2020: The couple made their relationship official on Valentine’s Day, with Jessup’s coming‑out story published shortly after (myGwork (LGBTQ+ professional network)).
- 2021–2024: Neither actor publicly discussed the relationship after 2020; the lack of official updates means their status during this period is unknown (Us Weekly (celebrity news magazine)).
- 2025: Entertainment roundups for Heizer’s Netflix series Boots did not list a current partner (Us Weekly), leading to speculation that the couple may have parted ways.
Heizer’s deliberate privacy means fans get few updates — but it also protects his personal life from the constant scrutiny that many public figures face. The silence, however, leaves a vacuum that unsourced claims often fill.
The pattern: After a single public announcement in 2020, Heizer and Jessup have chosen silence. Without new statements, the relationship timeline remains frozen at that point.
Are Connor Jessup and Miles Heizer still together?
Evidence of continued relationship
- No official breakup announcement has been made by either Heizer or Jessup. The last confirmed public dating period remains the 2020 reveal (PinkNews (LGBTQ+ news site)).
- Us Weekly’s 2025 cast dating‑history article notes that Heizer “was linked to” Jessup and that “the pair have since appeared to have broken up” (Us Weekly).
- A similar roundup from Swooon states that Heizer “has not been publicly linked to anyone since 2020” (Swooon (entertainment website)).
Recent public sightings and social media
- Neither actor has posted about the other on Instagram since early 2020. Heizer’s account (@younggoth) and Jessup’s account do not contain current couple photos.
- No paparazzi photos of the two together have surfaced since late 2021.
The pattern: after a very public coming‑out and relationship announcement in 2020, both men have retreated into personal privacy. The absence of confirmation of a split means the status is officially “unconfirmed” — not “broken up.”
If either actor posts a photo with a new partner — or makes a public statement — that would settle the question. Until then, readers should treat single‑status labels from fan‑sourced databases with caution.
The implication: The most responsible conclusion remains “unconfirmed,” and fans should avoid assuming a split without direct confirmation.
Did Miles Heizer date Brandon Flynn?
On‑screen kiss vs. real life
- On 13 Reasons Why, Heizer’s character Alex Standall shared a kiss with Brandon Flynn’s character Justin Foley. The scene was part of the show’s exploration of teenage sexuality.
- No credible source — neither actor, nor any reliable media outlet — has ever reported a real‑life romantic relationship between Heizer and Flynn (PinkNews).
- The confusion likely stems from fan shipping of the two characters, which sometimes blurs into speculation about the actors’ personal lives.
13 Reasons Why co‑star dynamics
- Heizer and Flynn have described a friendly working relationship in interviews, but neither has indicated anything beyond a professional bond.
- Flynn has been publicly linked to other individuals, and Heizer’s long‑term known relationship is with Connor Jessup.
The catch: On-screen chemistry can easily be mistaken for off-screen romance. In this case, all available evidence points to a purely professional connection.
How did Miles Heizer get famous?
Early acting career
- Heizer began acting as a child, making his film debut in Rails & Ties (2007) alongside Kevin Bacon and Marcia Gay Harden (Wikipedia).
- He appeared in the television series Parenthood (2010–2011) as Drew Holt, a recurring role that built his early resume.
Breakout role in 13 Reasons Why
- In 2017, Heizer was cast as Alex Standall in Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why, a drama that became a global phenomenon. The show ran for four seasons (2017–2020) and made Heizer a household name among young audiences (Seventeen).
- He also starred in the thriller Nerve (2016) with Emma Roberts and Dave Franco.
Notable film and TV appearances
- In 2025, Heizer took a lead role in the Netflix series Boots, a comedy about a women’s football team (Us Weekly).
- Other credits include Palo Alto (2013), The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015), and Memoria (2023).
What this means: Heizer’s career trajectory shows a steady climb from child actor to Netflix lead, with his personal life occasionally intersecting with public curiosity.
Who is Miles Heizer’s boyfriend?
Connor Jessup background
- Connor Jessup is a Canadian actor born June 23, 1994. He is best known for playing Tyler Locke in Locke & Key (2020–2022) and Ben Stone in Manifest (2018–2023) (PinkNews).
- Jessup came out publicly in 2020, crediting his relationship with Heizer as a key factor in his decision to do so (Attitude).
Relationship history
- The two have never been married, though some fan sources label Heizer as “single” based on the lack of recent updates (Who’s Dated Who (user‑generated list) — low confidence).
- Heizer has not been linked to anyone else publicly since the 2020 confirmation.
“Falling in love inspired me to come out … I didn’t want to hide the most important person in my life.”
— Connor Jessup, speaking to Attitude (LGBTQ+ media outlet), February 2020
“The relationship between Connor Jessup and Miles Heizer is adorable — fans are loving the new couple.”
— Seventeen (youth lifestyle magazine), February 2020
The pattern: The relationship was defined by a single, powerful public moment. Since then, both actors have chosen to keep their private lives out of the spotlight.
Confirmed vs. unclear
Confirmed facts
- Miles Heizer is a gay American actor born in 1994 (Wikipedia)
- He has been in a public relationship with Connor Jessup (announced 2020) (Attitude)
- No evidence exists that he dated Brandon Flynn (PinkNews)
- His breakout role was in 13 Reasons Why (2017–2020) (Seventeen)
What’s unclear
- Exact start date of Heizer‑Jessup relationship
- Current relationship status (2025 reports suggest possible split, but no confirmation) (Us Weekly)
- Whether Heizer has ever dated other co‑stars (no evidence)
- Whether Heizer’s social media activity indicates a relationship (no posts with Jessup since early 2020)
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Frequently asked questions
How old is Miles Heizer?
Miles Heizer was born May 16, 1994. As of 2025 he is 31 years old.
What is Miles Heizer known for?
He is best known for playing Alex Standall in the Netflix series 13 Reasons Why. He also starred in Nerve (2016) and the Netflix series Boots (2025).
Is Miles Heizer married?
No, Miles Heizer has never been married. He was in a public relationship with Connor Jessup but no marriage has been reported.
What movies has Miles Heizer been in?
His film credits include Rails & Ties (2007), Palo Alto (2013), The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015), Nerve (2016), and Memoria (2023).
Does Miles Heizer have Instagram?
Yes, his Instagram handle is @younggoth.
What is Miles Heizer’s height?
He is 5 ft 8 in (1.73 m) tall.
For fans trying to piece together Miles Heizer’s personal life, the evidence is split: a clear public relationship that ignited in 2020, followed by near‑total silence. The implication for anyone following his story is that until either Heizer or Jessup speaks directly, the most responsible conclusion is “unconfirmed” — not “single” and not “together.” Expect new clarity only when one of them chooses to share it.
Daniel Harper is Editor-in-Chief at Australia Current, overseeing editorial standards, publication decisions and corrections.